This is a journey of dismantling how we think we should embody our sexuality, feminine energy, and ourselves as a woman, so that we can discover what it feels like to authentically & unapologetically embody all of it.

The dark feminine and our erotic enlivenment is an awakening to a sensual, juicy, raw, vibrant, pleasure-based relationship with ourselves, and untangling this from the toxic sexualization of it all is how we heal our sexual energy.

This journey is not about sex, but this is the only way to truly heal our sexual energy. The dark feminine and the enlivenment of our erotic power is not about anybody else – it’s about us being unapologetic in our bodies, our truth, our fire, and in living as enlivened and turned on to life as possible — and that will infiltrate everything else.

Pussy fire and erotic enlivenment is our aliveness — it’s the fire of our vitality to experience and soak up life, and it’s our ability to bask in pleasure and our sensuality. It’s deep reverence for our pussy and pelvis beneath the sexualization and objectification of her. It’s the essence of our sexual energy expanded into a full-body, full-being experience that is far beyond the genitals or sex. It’s our lust to live and taste every ounce of life.

It’s a wild love affair with our hearts and bodies. It’s an unleashing of our sensuality and erotic nature, and it’s the unapologetic ferocity and fire of the wild woman, the shameless woman, and the uninhibited woman who refuses to dim her heart or stray from her truth.

It's the dark feminine that gives us the strength to fight for, claim, drink up, and relish in this one precious life for all that it’s worth.

There is a weaving of our sexuality, sensuality, love for our bodies, libido, and passion with our joy, happiness, and vitality. All these aspects weave together, mirror one another, feed one another, and depend on one another. This journey is untangling it all so that we can set ourselves free of our own restraints, and so that we can access a full-body, full-being pleasure that we didn’t know before.

This is a journey of becoming unapologetic in our dark feminine self-expression, taking up space, choosing ourselves, and at times rubbing people the wrong way. Though this container will tap into the vast landscape of woman and the feminine, there will be emphasis on the dark feminine — the underbelly of the feminine that channels the erotic, our holy rage, our tantric magic, and our sensuality.

For those who step into the flames we will dance with the dark feminine archetypes of the Huntress, Bitch, Mad Woman, Whore, Seductress, and the Witch.

This container midwives an emotional, cognitive, and somatic journey, unraveling your feminine psyche and awakening your erotic innocence and dark feminine power that is your protector of all that you love and all that you are. It’s a journey of self-love, self-discovery, and devotion to yourself, and it’s granting yourself full permission to unleash all that has been hushed and demonized in women and the feminine.

This is a dark feminine reclamation of power that the patriarchy does not want us to have.

Though this journey is not about sex, I don’t think we can tap into the richest or most authentic essence of our sexuality without doing this work. It’s sexual wounding that cuts us off from our erotic innocence and power. Through this journey, we will come into a deep somatic relationship with our pussy and our pelvis, and the pleasure of our bodies, but nothing about this course is rooted in self-touch of the genitals or acts of sex in any way, it’s rooted in a deep relationship with the entirety of our bodies as an erogenous zone, while burning the stories of sexualization to the ground.

This course is for anybody who senses something untapped that they are hungry for — whether that be in the dark feminine, their sexuality, sensuality, eroticism, everyday pleasure, or joy. 

This is for women who simply want to feel more alive and feel something in them light up when they hear the term erotic enlivenment, or the dark feminine. It’s for women who want to heal their relationship with their pussy, or have a deeper relationship with her.  It’s for women who want to feel more comfortable in their fire, in their assertion, anger, and in taking up space. It’s for women who want to feel more comfortable in their bodies, in their sensuality, and in embodying their sexual energy in their everyday lives beyond engagement with others or in acts of sex. It’s for women who can feel themselves holding back in their sensuality, afraid to fully let go and be seen however those around will perceive it. 

Maybe you compartmentalize this energy. Maybe you hate your body and struggle with body image, beauty, and food. Maybe you are going through a major transition in your life around a relationship, your sexual identity, perimenopause, motherhood, or postpartum. Maybe you are struggling with sisterhood wounding around this energy, or your relationship with men. Maybe you feel disconnected from this energy, or your pussy herself, and maybe you feel consumed by the shadows of all of this.

Sexuality has become a weapon used against women’s relationship with themselves and their bodies, and the dark feminine is our healing salve.

There is so much pressure to embody ourselves as women in a certain way or to embody our sexuality in a certain way, paired with collective misogyny, gender based violence, madonna-whore contradictions, hierarchy, and oppression that we are all severed from this energy or are wounded in some way or another. The dark feminine teaches us to reclaim our sexual energy, sensuality, pleasure, and eroticism as our own that is completely separate, or at the very least not limited to sex or anybody else. It’s heightening the sensitivity of our entire body, being deeply attuned to pleasure, the intelligence of our bodies, and our instincts beneath collective programming so that we can have the joy of being our own lovers, deeply in love with every ounce of ourselves, our life, and our bodies, and every breath, and every moment we are granted.

Women can end up so shut down from their experiences and the messages they are bombarded with and it makes perfect sense why we feel the ways we do – whether we hate our bodies, have no libido, are ashamed of the libido we do have, whether we want nothing to do with sex or our pussy, or want things we don’t want to want, or don’t want to want things that we do want, or we want to show up in our partnerships differently, or we want to show up sexually or as a woman differently.

Regardless of the details, we are left longing to feel and be differently than we are. But what if nothing was wrong with us?

The dark feminine is what protects us from the messages that gaslight our power and experiences as women, and it protects us from the stories, structures, systems, and people that harm us. 

The biggest block in embodying our erotic innocence and power as women is often our idea of what we are supposed to be, how we should feel, and how our experience should be — and this blinds us from something that is much more powerful than what we are grasping for, but we can’t see it because we are looking in all the wrong places. 

This journey is a map of excavation, embodiment, enlivenment, and power. It’s a map of luminosity, and once we taste what we have been starved of – nothing can stop us.

Whether you feel a sense of longing, denying, or forcing around this energy within you, this space is for you.

Step into these flames and find your confidence to embody the dark feminine pussy fire flames of your Goddess given rights so that you can have more joy and pleasure in every moment and facet of your life.

What this dark feminine reclamation entails —

We will spend three months rooted in somatic therapy, shadow work, pleasure, and embodiment, and we will traverse six dark feminine archetypes that will support our capacity to hold and embody what we uncover.

Over five spirals or modules, we will come into deep attunement to our fire, and our hearts and pussy. We will tap the roots to unveil and rewrite our story, summoning the dark feminine in her erotic power and innocence, and this story will be rewritten in our bodies — in how we live and feel and move — not just in our minds or spirits.

There are five spirals, and the first three spirals are all rooted in shadow work and somatic safety, revealing what is severing us from a full, unapologetic embodiment of our dark feminine fire, and from here, a deeper level of juiciness begins. We meet pleasure. We meet the shameless women, and we dive deep into our desire, lust, and longing. We dive deep into joy and our erotic intelligence. We untangle our sexuality from the erotic, and we untangle our sexuality from our sensuality and pleasure. Then, our dark feminine Queen receives her coronation. We meet the Huntress, Bitch, Mad Woman, Whore, Seductress, and Witch and the pussy fire flames of our goddess give rights are lit.

This experience contains two aspects that harmonize and weave together — there is the shadow work of the psyche, emotions, and cognitive self, and there is a somatic aspect to integrate this all into our bodies and physiology, expanding our capacity to embody the dark feminine.

We will deeply attune to our bodies through somatic awareness, and we will bring in movement, breath, sound, and touch through specific practices to integrate what is uncovered and what we are summoning. We will unveil our relationship with power, pleasure, and joy. We will somatically track our patterns, restrictions, and limitations in our nervous system and bring in full-body, full-being pleasure, heightening our sensitivity to a level we have not yet known. This journey is rooted in unveiling what we unconsciously have come to believe about being a woman, and what we have unconsciously denied ourselves as women — especially in our erotic, sensual, and dark feminine nature. It’s also rooted in awakening the sensitivity of our whole bodies and beings to pleasure.

We begin this journey by nurturing a deep sense of safety in our bodies, feminine energy, female form, and our hearts, and then we meet the dark feminine archetypes of the Huntress, Bitch, Mad Woman, Whore, Seductress and Witch.

Without a deep sense of somatic safety, and without a deep nurturing of our sensual and erotic innocence, we will not have the capacity to embody the dark feminine without her shadows thrashing.

Every step of the way will be supported with somatic practices to meet ourselves where we are as we learn to trust the unfolding of our unique process, wisdom, and intelligence of our beings and bodies. This is a journey of deep listening and building trust between ourselves and our bodies.

There will be rich written content and journal prompts designed to deepen your conscious awareness and embodiment practices to ground it into your being. The dynamics of working between your psyche and body will deepen the power of one another and support both ends of the transformation to sustainably land and last.

The written content has been carefully crafted to mine the facets of your feminine psyche and your experience as a woman, illuminating and awakening the power available that you are subconsciously not claiming or don’t know how to claim. The format, pace, and embodiment practices have been carefully designed to land what you discover in your body so that what you uncover is not lost as a momentary high of revelation.

Everyone has the option to do this journey on their own or to include six one-on-one sessions that will be scheduled at specific transitions throughout the journey (more details below).

We can have all the epiphanies we want, but if they don’t land in our bodies, nothing in our lives or lived experience changes.

If you so choose, there is a flower essence set that goes with this experience that I cannot recommend enough. The only reason it is not included is because of the complications and variations of international shipping, with timing, packaging, pricing, etc. (I am in the U.S.), and my instincts tell me to let you choose whether you want to bring this in or not.

I will say they are one more channel of activation, one more channel of healing, and one more channel of awakening that add a tremendous amount of power to this journey. To physically ingest these energies is a potent addition, and the flowers are where this offering came from. I sat with red snap dragon years ago, Kali Ma appeared and said Pussy Fire — she spoke to erotic power, holy rage, and passion. This was the beginning of this download that has continually evolved, grown, and deepened in my personal journey, in my work, and I don’t imagine it stops here. The world is beckoning more women to step into this fire and to stand their ground for what has been hushed within them, and for what has been hushed in all women.

There is a vagina-brain connection that physiologically deeply affects our mental health and wellbeing.

Deepening our relationship with our sensuality, pussy, and full-body, full-being pleasure is powerful (and really flipping joyful).

There is an aspect of awakening our pussy that awakens our life force and our spirit. There is a lot of conditioning, and a lot of life experience that has tainted, shamed, wounded, repressed, numbed, and cut this energy off, and our relationship to this part of our body off. There is a lot of conditioning that has sexualized everything, and created illusions that are not in our best interest regarding what it means and looks like to embrace this energy and this part of our body.

We’ve been subliminally taught to objectify our own bodies and sexuality and to be ashamed of them at the same time. We’ve been taught too long to be desired more than we desire pleasure itself. We’ve been taught to dim our light, hush our voices, and dismiss our boundaries.  We’ve been conditioned to burn ourselves out, and the world in its entirety has been conditioned to see the feminine power of the heart and pussy as weak or irrelevant so we don’t realize to claim the force that is at our fingertips and the embers that are crackling between our legs.

When it comes to our sexuality, every woman in varying degrees carries shame regarding both ends of the spectrum — the wild, primal, erotic nature of deep desire, and the shutdown, wounded side where there may be no sense of safety, libido, or ability to let go or tap into this energy at all.

This fire is tended for all the wounds of the feminine, and all the wounds of woman to be transmuted into liberation.

This container has been tended to activate more joy, vibrancy, happiness, vulnerability, creativity, pleasure, passion, self-love, body love, fun, play, and simply more energy and connection in our day-to-day lives.  

It also being tended to acknowledge or transmute the heaviness and density of the heart, fatigue, burnout, fear, hypervigilance, OCD-like behavior, dullness, feeling stuck, flat, and unable to accomplish, pursue, and manifest our desires, or breakthrough our past.
 

This space is tended for those who know deep in their bones there is more. It’s for those who feel the dark feminine summoning them within. It’s for anyone who feels that tug in their heart, that yes in their belly, and the embers of healing crackling in their pussy.

I invite you to step into the flames.

I do not summon you with false promises of instantaneous happiness, abundance, or joy, or that old stories or new layers will never arise again.

I do not summon you with the false promise that it won’t be hard or painful to shed these layers. I don’t summon you with the false promise of never feeling a heavy heart or lost again. I do not summon you with the false promises of enlightenment or perfection. I do not summon you with the false promise to provide you with all the answers you are longing for because the answers are deep within you and will show themselves in right timing.

I summon you to the rawness of life.

I summon you to the rawness of beauty, the rawness of your soul, and the freedom and liberation that comes by surrendering to and embracing all of it. May we light the flame of the Goddess and set the parts of ourselves free we didn’t even know were hiding.

May we light the pussy fire flames of the dark feminine that are our Goddess-given right.